1. Live Alone :
Stay independently once for a while. This will let you know your capabilities, how much you are dependent on others and how much you can do on your own.
2.Start saving for yourself :
It’s the time when we keep spending money and that’s really fine but keep some part of your earning for savings. Invest your money in different investment options.
3. Follow your passion :
You are working, financially independent. So now, its time to follow your passion. Try to find out any of your passion and learn it, do it, work on it, you will be happy that you gave it a try!
4. Travel a lot :
Travel as much as you can. This is the only time in life when you are free from any of the responsibilities, so utilize this time in traveling. You will realize your strengths and weaknesses, you will get to know yourself very well.
5. Family Time :
Spend some time with your family. They need you right now, they need someone to talk to. Be their friend.
6. Think about yourself :
Think about what you really want in your life. Give yourself time. This is the time when you indulge in your work so much that you keep one fix schedule like eat, work, sleep and repeat and so you just forget to think about what you really want in your life.
7. Read books :
Read as much as you can whether it is a novel, journals, newspapers or any other thing of your interest. It is the time to get good amount of knowledge and so you must do that.
8. Be responsible :
Start being responsible for your success as well as failures. Take a complete charge of your life in your own hand. Face whatever comes in front of you. Don’t let it down you. Be strong.
9. Learn to say NO :
This is the time when you really need to learn to say NO. You don’t want unnecessary drama in your life, nobody wants that, but some of us can’t say NO to others and that’s the problem. You have the right to say, do whatever you want, feel if it’s good for yourself.
10. Focus on your career :
You are at the start of your career. So focus on your dream job. Work hard to get what you want. Don’t worry about failure, just give your 100% in your work.
All the best.
– Suvarna (Megha).
Good. But marriage these days happen at late 20’s
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No, there are many who are indulged in this as they start growing up!
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By the way, thanks for reading my blog post Hemant..
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Nice post, nice tips and very different from theory to moving all rules, living alone is fine, family, travel and a career and a thing is sure if you want you can be enjoying a fascinating travel called life where lots of goals come true and many others no.
Live it up Megha!
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Thank you so much David! 🙂
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🙂
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True nd i completely agree to what u say
But when dis knda topics r discssd wth parents dey find it weird nd gve the lame excuse dat all ur dreams wll be the same aftr marriage as well
Which is one hell of a lie nd dats how i see it
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Yes, sometimes it happens. But when you are completely independent, they feel secure about your future and let you take your decisions on your own.
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Dat depends i guess
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Yes, it depends according to the parents and society and many other factors.
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I’ve done 8/10. Should I get married now?
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Your wish. I am just suggesting, its just my opinion.
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Each person needs to follow their own path in life.
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Yes, that’s very important! 🙂
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This is so true…independence and responsibilities lots of self discovery are what we need to focus on in our 20s😊
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Yeah, right. N this is the time nowadays that people start finding themselves alone and start searching for their better half, but they must not do that, this is what I feel.
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I am definitely on the same page with you 😊
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Oh…Thank you so much! 🙂
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Nice post
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Thank you so much! 🙂
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Amazing amazing list!! Did you compile this on your own? Well done🌼
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Thanks Shreya…there are many who give us suggestions on this, i have made my to do list before getting married and shared it with you all! 🙂
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It’s great! 😊
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🙂 🙂 🙂
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All good. How many would follow it?
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I guess all of those who are independent enough in their lives! 🙂
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Doing each of these things is building strength. I would take money more seriously, were I to have my Twenties to do over again. Otherwise, I experienced the majority of these, as a twentysomething.
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Oh that’s great if you have done this all in your 20’s! 🙂
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I needed this advice! These tips are helpful.
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Oh…that’s great! I am glad that my post is helpful to some. Thank you so much! 🙂
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You’re welcome 😊
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Wish I did this in my 20s. Great read!
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Thank you so much! 🙂
Have a nice day…
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You said it all dear. That’s a nice one and very educating👍
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Thank you so much! 🙂
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Nice suggestions
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Thank you so much! 🙂
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Well said 👍
Very impressive 😊
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Thanks a lot for reading my blog….
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Very true..!! 👍
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Thanks for reading and I am glad that you agreed on it.. 🙂
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Great! All major points covered
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Thanks for sharing my post on your site…
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I’m getting to the end of my 20’s and I’ve done all the things you describe 🙂
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Oh…wow! Congratulations, you are living your life… 😉 😉 😀
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Gone are those old days when the girl was married in her early age of adoloscence …the girl of today does all these things before she gets married …and I feel she should enjoy life herself before getting married
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